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I'm seriously considering counseling. I think I need it. My life is starting to consume the positive me. I just found out today that I have a 13 year old step-son. It was bad enough 4 years ago when I found out I had a 7 year old step-daughter. Oh...and to top it off...the woman is single again...and MY fiance and her were engaged before they split all those years ago. She hurt him, so I know he cared about her. Pretty crappy timing after he just cheated on me this past year. Lucky for him we have two beautiful babies or things would be a lot different. Happy freakin' New Year's to me :(
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oh wait....I just found an email where he cheated on me again. Thanks a lot God. I really needed that. Haven't you tested me enough? I can't take it.
06 Jan 09 by member: tabithahulett
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Oh, Honey. I am so sorry. You are such a strong person. I think that counseling for you would be very beneficial no matter what the outcome. Please remember, we are here for you.
06 Jan 09 by member: redone750
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You can either do one of two things....get out now! or forgive him and don't ever look back. The choice is your. Best of luck to you. Don't blame God. He did not do this to you.
06 Jan 09 by member: tanis
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Wow!! I'm sooo sorry. But remember that it's not God doing wrong to you or you, yourself, doing wrong to you. You can't control everyone else's behavior. You just have a basic right to be respected and treated well by him. Some men cheat. Not all. Some women put up with it, for better or for worse, as we know from a former president of ours. You have to think of what's right for you and continue on in the knowledge that you are a fine person who has done nothing wrong. Take care of yourself first. You deserve it, and we're here for you.
06 Jan 09 by member: debbra
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I am so sorry that you're going through this. You are not alone. I think counselling would be a good thing. It will help you regardless of whatever choice you make if you feel like you need to make one at this time. You may not need to make a choice immediately, you may need to give it some time to mull a little and then look at it with a less emotional opinion and come up with a better thought out decision. I always say to follow your heart because it's better to follow your heart now than to look back down the years and regret a decision you made with your head.
06 Jan 09 by member: jakesmommie
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