I know what you mean about eating because things are rocky. Maybe not my marriage, but the friendship between my husband and I. Sometimes i just felt like everything was out of my hands, that no matter how "good" i was being, he would still be mad at me about something! I felt like i couldn't get control of it. The one thing i could control was what i ate. Conciously or subconciously I think that is why i started eating more!!!! I found short lived confort in the food i ate! This process worked for me (or at least i thought it did until i gained 27 lbs that i worked so hard to get off the first time). It was so hard to motivate myself to start eating right again!!! But this site is AWESOME!!!! I am getting my confort from other people who are going through or have gone through the very same things and i can't tell you how that helps. My problem NOW is that i see food as an enemy and i have to force myself to eat enough. Which is really really hard. I am afraid that once i eat something that gave me the comfort before that i won't be able to stop. Anyways enough about me! Just try to get re-motivated! Think about how great you are going to feel when you have lost those last 15lbs! And just think this weightloss is something he can't touch. THis quest is yours alone. This is something you are doing for you and your health and you are going to look Phenominal!!!!!!! If need anyone to talk to I would love to be youyr buddy and help you out!!!