My suggestion is to have him start making his own food. You do your thing. That's a pretty 'dickhead' thing to do, he should be supporting you...but if he really doesn't want to change, don't force him, you just do your thing. STAY STRONG!
07 Oct 17 by member: RamsonCole
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I agree. It's hard (and unreasonable) to drag the people you live with into this world. I plan and prepare everything I eat (while I'm home and can do that), and my wife (who is also watching her weight, but is using a ww points system) does the same. Once in a rare while one of us will say "hey .. can I have some of that?" .. but it's rare!
07 Oct 17 by member: rhills
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I had the same problem, but although I had a hard time at first, I do not eat the stuff in the house. But it took a while! If I am asked I say no thank you. I did eat it at first, but as my lifestyle changed so did my response. I remember getting mad once: I loudly said "if I want to eat something I will buy what I want and I will eat it. I like to buy my own goodies." Now it is not a big deal. But, I have to tell you that if someone put something in my face, that person would never do it again! The reaction that I get from my body helps reinforce me not eating the junk. Many years I spent eating crap with my husband, now I eat healthy food and cook it. He will eat what I make but he may eat extra food. 🐾
07 Oct 17 by member: ginger dog
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oh the temptation! and i love bread and sweets too that is what my weakness is. im sorry you fell sick after eating that junk but maybe that will help u steer away from those foods next time. we have cant control what others eat but we can control what we do and thats the key.
07 Oct 17 by member: zombeast
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That's really a horrid thing to do, my husband turned his nose up to Keto WOE until I lost 30lbs, then he was "well I could try". He's down 18lbs and loving the food.
07 Oct 17 by member: maeday42
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I'm sorry. He is just use to having someone eat that stuff with him. I still make my husband and kiddos there pastas and breads. I've learned to try not give in to temptation. its hard at first. I work at a school cafeteria as a lunch lady so I definitely have temptation everyday. it gets easier with time. my scale wasn't moving much. So I started measuring. It was a huge difference.
07 Oct 17 by member: holcombebabe
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Thanks to everyone for the support. I am learning. Just say no.
08 Oct 17 by member: ninastewart1
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Yep, you'll have to battle him on top of the usual temptations. My heart goes out to you dear. We'll be your support group as best as we can.
08 Oct 17 by member: Jipper500
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Stay strong girl! Food really is like a drug and that's how I had to approach my weight loss this time. Nothing should have that much control over us. Some days are harder than others but you can do it!!
08 Oct 17 by member: kmking40
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Sounds like hubby is afraid of something....
08 Oct 17 by member: Abbee2015
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