Tianator's Journal, 03 Mar 10

good job, excellent work. I was just given 12 chocolate bars from work because they were written of, they are the Lindt, I'm having a hard time not eating them. 

I can't help it. Let me apologize first. I don't usually have anything negative to say to anybody, BUT I can't contain myself anymore. Do you actually this crap just to get a reaction? If so, you have won. I see some of the comments that you make in regards to foods that seem to be so unfitting for someone on a weight loss forum. There are many people that try their hardest to kick the sugar addictions yet you make comments about licking a fricken chocolate rabbit. It's clear that you are a selfish rude little brat. I saw an entry this morning from someone calling you an ass and I thought it was a rude comment. Now, I see it was completely warranted and very conservative on their part. If you don't feel the need to do anything to better yourself, so be it. But your rude comments may actually harm some others. That should be played out on the playground - not here. Those of us here that do care provide advice, support, and encouragement just as we need them in return. What you need is a swift kick in the ass.  

An ass.. that would be my mum :) What you need my friend is to mind your own business. This is MY journal. I am NOT asking people for their comments, it's a place for ME to reflect on MY choices. If I WANTED someone's help or someone ELSE'S thoughts I would most certainly add at the end of MY journal 'any thought guys?' However, seeing as how I am NOT asking for people advice and comments I see no reason why you have to take such offence to someone's own PERSONAL journal. No, some of my comments ARE inappropriate, however, they are meant for ME to reread and rethink what I could've done different the week before. To reflect on what I'm doing, and how I AM PERSONALLY coping with things. Personally I don't see why you're so upset. I should be made an example of! 'Try harder or you'll end up like her!' It's obviously clear that YOU do not care enough about people to get to know them and natural behaviour. But since you have no desire to get to know people first, I'm sure you wouldn't know or understand this is just how I am. And I can't particularly say that I CARE if you like me, my comments, or anything like that. I'M having a HARD time with this life change. I'm sorry that YOU can't appreciate that sugar has been my addiction, and that kicking an addiction like sugar is ten times harder than kicking the drug habit, smoking ANd drinking I've given up. Forgive me for being a selfish little brat and choosing the lesser of four evils to have myself addicted to. I'm sorry that I'm having a hard time coping with this life style. I'm sorry that you don't like how I'm coping and handling myself with MY addiction. Forgive me for trying to keep this a light subject for myself, so I don't go insane and OBSESSING about my weight and numbers, so I don't end up with some ridiculous eating disorder, hatred for food, and hatred for myself and how I look and feel. I'm sorry for TRYING to fix my addiction. I'm sorry for working through this in MY OWN and very PERSONAL way. Is that better? Is that what you wanted? To get an apology for my personality? Do you feel better? I don't particularly need the encouragement of people like you who care so little about people that they make ridiculous comments about how someone is selfish for posting in their OWN journal their thoughts and feelings. If I want advice I WILL ask, or I'll totally avoid know-it-all people, read a book and learn more effectively that way than have someone tell me, scathingly I'm clearly wrong because I'm younger and my personality isn't correct for other people, and I don't take it seriously enough. I WILL NOT change my personality to better suit YOUR needs. If you don't like how and who I am I suggest you stop sticking your nose into my PERSONAL AREA of thought, emotion and reflection. ------ fffffff I ALMOST opened up one of those bags of kisses the other night XD Thank god my painting had to get done XD 

kmartin is usually quite a sweetheart. Everyone has their bad days I guess. :) BTW, you can set your journal to buddies only if you don't want comments from those of us who don't know you. Good luck kicking the sugar! That stuff is poison!  

Holy crap someone has there knickers in a twist. I'm not sure which one bothers me more the comment that was made to my daughter or the comment she made. Although both comments are warranted I do believe that Tianator has a more valid point - if you don't like what you read don't read it - that would be appropriate for anybody that is reading anyone else journal. I know that in my daughter's journal entries there is a lot of humour in what she writes and it is very unfortunate that people take the way she writes things as gold and set in stone.